T makes small changes every now and then, usually they don't bother me. But I remember during the first year I saw her in person, she moved the stuffed Raven that sits on top of one of the shelves and it was moved to a place where I felt like it was staring at me. I hated that and I told her and she moved it. I've been seeing her in person again for a lil over a year now and I honestly couldn't tell you where that bird is, if it's even still in her office. I'm pretty sure it is, but I cannot picture where. I'll have to look for it on Saturday.

She brought in a bench a couple months ago or so, and it's like a little table in front of the couch. Adult me likes it, appreciates the story behind it (it was hers when she was a young girl) but the little kid inside me hates it - feels like it separates her from me. I've not admitted that to t, though.

She's always had the same chair that she sits in - I don't know how I would feel if she suddenly changed that. I think that would rattle me.