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Originally Posted by ElsaMars
Marital counseling is crucial in this situation. Your husband needs to be checked and corrected in how he's speaking to you and handling this situation. I'm not sure he's being intentionally manipulative, that's always a possibility of course, but regardless you need an impartial 3rd party in this situation.
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He REFUSES to attend counseling. He said that this was me who did this in our relationship and that counseling hasn't worked for me, how is it going to work for us. This is a me thing not a relationship thing as we have no relationship, that's what he tells me. I started this and it's my fault that things are the way they are.
None of this started until I started "sneaking around."
Thank you so much for your reply
