Hi @Futuremrs,

I am very sorry to hear that... I truly hope you can both go around this issue.

I'm thinking hat if it starts to be a big deal you will both start avoiding sex, because every time it happens it makes damage.
Believe me it is very frustrating for a man, especially when it has nothing to do with lack of appetite...

I suggest you can find a way to openly address the issue and find good strategies...

In my case, my girlfriend has been awesome. I've lowered expectations to the minimum and when it happens she is awesome in not making a big deal with it.. We usually end up enjoying ourselves in other ways...
Furthermore, you should also look to other good advice given in other replies to this post, namely @Mysterious153...

Cheers to you.
I hope you can find a way out of this....