You have just answered it!

Also a question - your first love was not your wife?

Correct she was not my first love. (But I still loved her in a different way)

My first love was when I was 21 and she was 18 and 6mth baby girl (Emma) we had an argument over something trivial and we split up (Thinking for a few day`s) BUT her mother had other idea`s!
`Anyway` What am saying is I loved her then (No crush) And if she came to me now and asked me back (Even after all those years`) I would gladly say YES!