I get how distraught you are, eyesclosed. I can clearly read it.

I am not speaking from any personal experience here so, FWIW.

The law is not the same as what may seem right. Sadly, we all have to lead our lives by what the laws are. Even if we don't agree with them.

Divorce (I have friends who are) is very emotional. Lawyers are not. I suggest you find one you trust so that you can get through this.

Venting here is a good thing, though....