so, I have a dilemma of sorts. I am a mandatory reporter in my state for child abuse/neglect. one of the men I had talked to online from a dating site, I finally found online, he had given me 2 false names (I could tell they were) but I pieced things together in a different way based on information he gave me and the location thingy on my ph when he called the other day. (my therapist told me to look up any guy I meet so I got instant checkmate) Anyway, he is a HS principal. he has acted inappropriately in a sexual manner while at school, while talking to me (video once and a picture, of him jerking off in his office) WITH children in the school.

I had blocked him the first time I talked to him which was back in August, because I thought he was creepy, he made a new profile and found me again a week ago and so after a short conversation I was going to give him a second chance.

Beyond the fact I found out that he is married and has kids at home which would have been a no go for me anyway (I asked him if he was married yesterday when we were texting, he said no) his behavior while in the presence of other people's children is SO disturbing to me I can't even describe my disgust.
I sent him a message saying so, and not to contact me again, I blocked him from my ph and the website.

My issue now is, do I report him? like a dummy I deleted our conversation, although it didn't have his name or his face in any pictures. I don't know how I would prove to anyone it is him, other than the fact that I saw him on webcam and talked to him via skype. so a 'he said, she said' thing and a pretty big deal to bring some kind of child abuse charges on him if it were to come to that. I would call it possible child endangerment, not necessarily abuse or neglect since he was talking to an adult.

thing is, school websites have filters that are so sensitive you can't even share a chicken breast recipe without it being flagged. so I don't know how he managed to skype from his office without being caught.

so. do I just deal with my freaked outness and get over it, lesson learned or should I report him? I just know I would be completely freaked out if my kids were in his school. I just find this whole thing very disturbing. Especially in light of some of the things he said to me while we were texting about his past experiences. I really need to listen to my gut, I should have never chatted with him a second time and thank God I never actually met him.

I am seriously sick to my stomach.