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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
You had a really rough start with your family of origin. You are doing amazingly well. You had an indiscretion and he's showing anger, being abusive, and not forgiving and moving forward.
I guess you both need to decide if the marriage can be salvaged or if it is broken and needs to be ended. You can put a stop to the verbal abuse by demanding he stop it because you won't stay with him unless he cuts it out.
If you say it's counseling or divorce, he may choose counseling.
My h found a t for us once i moved out. That motivated him.
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I threatened to move out once and he put a big guilt trip on me so I stayed. It's pretty sad because the children are more involved than I'd like them to be. They are only 11 & 13. He's convinced them that I'm the "bad guy." This all started with me talking with another man right after our youngest was born and hasn't let up since and that is my fault.
I'll agree with some of the things he says and then I'll take it back because it's not how I feel or really see that being the case. It's a mess, thank you so much for your feedback