
The combination of a mood disorder (e.g. depression) with certain types of personality disorder (e.g. avoidance) makes upward mobility far more difficult and chance-dependent than it otherwise would be.
It sounds as if the social "skills" this fellow honed in bullying you now serve him well in at least a certain vocational context.
Clayden, what do you think will help you survive in the short term?
Related: Long June 2015
Atlantic article -
Why It Pays to Be a Jerk
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My dog

mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.