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Originally Posted by Hobbit House
I agree with TishaBuy. You both need to decide where it's going to go from here.. Divorce or counseling. You can't live life in the past and that's what it sounds like he's trying to do to you. I hope you find the help you need.
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I agree with you guys. We constantly live in the past. That's what I try to tell him. He'll tell me that if I wasn't doing "it" today then we would be talking about it. He tells me I'm the one who lives in the past and he's talking about the abuse I'm doing to him today.
I do shut down. It feels like my mind goes blank when it comes times to talk with him about whatever it may be. It can be going to the store, washing the clothes but I get so anxious that I'm not going to "do it right."
Thank you for your input
