no, I know it was at school, I saw his office background and he had to go to some meetings, he was having a 'quickie' I guess before the meetings ugh.

The thing about what I did have on my ph is that there are no pictures of his face, the only time I saw him was on skype...well the other part is him saying he was at work and what he was doing at work, it was on text. but it is not in his name either. can they get text messages back? I didn't even think about it at the moment when I deleted the conversation, I was too creeped out and wanted it gone. It didn't occur to me until much later that I should have reported him. I just have no proof and I realize this is a serious charge if I were to bring it.

he lied on his dating profile, said he was single, that's why I talked to him even with some trepidation...when I looked at his school profile, there he was with the description of his wife and 5 kids...I don't know I just couldn't deal. I even told him in my last message, that his behavior was seriously disturbing, that if my kids went to his school I'd be freaked out and that his family deserved better. what makes this bother me so much I suppose is that one of the coaches at my kids' high school some years back was arrested for child porn on his computer at school. sick sick sick

oh as far as the impulse thing...I'm pretty sure this was not an isolated thing, he also seemed to enjoy telling me how kinky he was, some of it was pretty out there