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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
You were looking for someone to understand your feelings. Worst-case-scenario, you might have been feeling out the possibility of having an affair or getting this man to be the catalyst to help you leave your husband because you are unhappy with him. You're human. What you did was so minor. Especially since your husband won't go to counseling, it makes sense that you went to confide in someone else.
It's your h that is acting way over the top about this. He has no right to be hateful and abusive over this. Don't let him brainwash you.
Is he using this as an excuse to abuse you and act righteous about it? Red flags! He'll be beating you next. You owe it to yourself and to your kids to put a stop to it now.
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He tells me that counseling didn't work for me so how is it going to work for "us". There is no "us" we need to be in a relationship to go to counseling and there is no relationship. I do feel mind f%&*ed but then he will say something that I can't explain or articulate and he will say "see how can you know something if you can't explain it, you can only know something if you can explain it."
I go back and forth. I agree with him and then I don't. It's a mess. I have done so many things that I'm not proud of.
You are awesome, thank you for taking your time with me
