I just want to add that it's easy for me to say, "Go dump the two of them." Figuring out what, realistically, you can and want to do is not so easy.

I hope you find some way to exert some leverage over them. Maybe - don't leave anything good in the house to eat.

I remember a period in my life when my guy was out of work and not really looking for a job, while I was bustin' it. I think I came home one day and cut the TV electric cord.

You ever see those sharp spears they put on parts of buildings to keep birds from landing there? Wouldn't it be cool, if you could rig up the furniture in your house so there just was no comfortable place to sit or lie down on?