I've known MANY guys who didn't want kids at 26 who changed their minds and now have several who they love and care for greatly. But there is no guarantee he will change his mind. Life is often a crap shoot. We place our bets, cross our fingers and hope for the best. Some wishes and dreams come true, some fall through our fingers like sand in an hourglass. There are no guarantees when it comes to having children even if we do want them and try.

I do think you should seriously talk to him about it and know exactly where he stands. He might not want them, you could decide to leave and a few years later he could have them with someone else...so many possibilities here. Get to the bottom of why he feels the way he does, it could be an eye opener and make your decision much easier. You don't have enough information to make any kind of decision yet.

I'm sorry you are in this situation and I hope it works out well for you. Good luck.