My T has been in 3 offices since I started seeing her back in 1989. The first change didn't bother me except for having to figure out the bus schedule. I've since learned to drive. The last move, to her current office, bothered me for months beforehand, and even since. My family moved a lot when I was a child and I didn't have any say in the matter, so my T's changes in offices brings back all those (and other) feelings about being neglected, etc. She did allow me, however, to take photos of her in the old office, before her move. Sometimes I look at them, and it helps. She took most of her stuff to the new office, so first I saw familiar objects in unfamiliar locations, but now it's pretty much ok, most of the time. If there are any other BIG changes, sometimes I remember being upset about her moves, but like I said, most of the time it's ok.
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