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Old Oct 28, 2016, 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted by TheBoredOne View Post
So, my friend is in a band and this woman messaged him(she is like 30 years older than him, asking if she can join his band). This is the email convo he sent me of them

Her- Hey I like your music
Him- That's sweet of you, thanks!
Her- Yeah I know. I wanna be your new singer
Him- Well, we're actually not looking for one, but if you send me some of your songs I'll take it into consideration of collabing with you.
Her- / sends songs/
Him- Uh well I don't think you'd be the right fit for me, sorry.
Her- Why not?
Him- Your voice doesn't match our songs how we want them to sound
Her- I've got a great voice
Him- Okay. Alot of people do.
Her- So, yeah. I am gonna be your new singer.
Him- Bro, it's not gonna work out. I'm 20 and my band members are 16, 17, and 23. You told me you were 48...
Her- So what? I look about 18 it doesn't matter
Him- Sorry! We aren't needing a new singer
Her- You're triggering me, I can easily report you for a hate crime.

I kid you not, I can't add the picture he sent me(their screen shot) but she said all of that. Does it sound like she has a mental illness or something? I'm only asking because my friend said after he stopped replying she continued to send him 140 emails(no joke) he counted them.

Here is her music(can she even be serious? in your opinion).

reverbnation.com/dangerwoman
Imsorry but I cant tell you whether this person is for real or not. my ...opinion... is that since this is by email anyone can be anyone in the whole universe on the internet.

my wondering questions.... I wonder if you have permission from this person to post their email conversations with you here. this site is searchable by google and if they didnt give you permission it might violate some legality...

I also wonder what this person thinks should they happen to be a member here on psych central and they see their email to you is posted here. wondering also how you would feel if this person is taking these same emails and posting them elsewhere about you.....

I only mention this because this thread reminds me of another situation I encountered on another website where two members were posting private email conversations with each other, on the website while at the same time not aware that the two were both members of that website. it caused quite a problem for both, not to mention violating each others confidentiality, friendship and the site where they got the emails had a rule about not copying other peoples posts and emails with out permission due to copyright laws in that email company's location. I think psych central also has a rule that members cant repost anything that they do not have the legal right to do so due to copy right laws....

my suggestion you might want to contact this person and ask them for their permission to take their email conversations with you to other sites and post them for all to see.
Thanks for this!
Artchic528, Bill3