Thanks so much. I actually was in independence training for 1 1/2 years ten years ago. They focused on practical independence rather than empowerment. I learned to cook, clean etc. there, but as soon as I left the place and lived independently, I lost those skills. I lived on my own (with support) for three months before I fell apart and was hospitalized in a mental hospital. I've been in a mental hospital for nine years now and I badly want to leave but only wth the right supports. I mean i have a husband, with whom I want to be rather than with my fellow clients here. However, i"m very afria dthat I won't be able to get the home supports I (feel I) need based on the DPD diagnosis.