Sometimes it's hard to put your finger on the reasons. I have plenty of reason to be furious with my EX T. He is a narcissistic, psychopath, who set out to destroy my life. He has solicited others to HELP HIM and the IDIOTS were like SURE I'll help you destroy her. Now I am in the worst situation of my life. Pure hell for years. I suggest if you are annoyed at your T take heed and run for your life. Some of them are the WORST human beings you could ever encounter.