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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Ok first if your bf is showing the same patterns of behavior that alone should b enough to say this is a deal breaker but on top of that wtf isn't your bf standing up for you. if somone, whether family or friends are offensive in my home, they no longer would be welcome and it seems to me your bf has no backbone to stand up for you or agrees secretly with how his father sees black people.
silence speaks just as loud as him being racist himself. without hesitation I say you should end this relationship. NOT worth it. you deserve to be treated with respect. period.
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When it comes to his family, he will always agree and will never say no to them.
I was shocked one day, not long ago, whe they're showing a story on tv about protest on a black neighborhood somwhere in the US. His dad was furious saying: look at these bunch of monkeys and baboons (referring to black people), they have no respect for nothing. He kept saying that over and over. I left the room immediately and told my BF why. His dad was a police man at apartheid.
For me it is disgusting. I wasn't raised like that.