Thanks for replying,
Over night I was unwell with IBS he actually was helpful and ran out finding my meds etc but other times he could just continue and ignore me - I burnt my forearm on cooker few weeks ago. He heard from the family room but didnt bother coming in.
Its a bad burn and still getting dressed but hes not acknowledged it once.
How do I stop reacting to whatever mood hes in? I am either fired up to go or feeling sorry that he'll never cope