So, I'm being told that it's depression. Then I'm told it's because he's not in the mood. Then it's the Adderall. Then, it's another excuse....

I don't think he's cheating on me. I trust him. However, he's completely lost all interest in sex. I get no indication that he's even attracted to me anymore. He quit drinking a few months back, and he's been kinda up and down mood wise since. No surprise for those of us who know how addiction works. Anyway, it's impossible for him to get aroused, and nothing I do helps. He just doesn't want it anymore.

So, what am I allowed to say to this? Should I just say nothing forever? Should I keep confronting him? Should I ask him to get expensive viagras? I just wish he desired me, and I haven't seen that in him in ages. I feel like I have a roomie instead of a husband. He has no interest when I'm nude or wearing lingerie, no interest if I get him nice things, no interest ever.

What's a girl to do? Any thoughts?

Thanks for reading.

Marilyn