Inna,

What you did wasn't wrong & you know it......what the other person said was that someone (if they wanted to make trouble) could turn what you did into "calling" is abuse, but actually being abuse....it wasn't!!!!

I was accused of abusing my Mother when she was in her home dying of cancer. It was the home care lady (supposed to be a RN) that had the police called annonomously about elderly abuse of my Mother. The police came to the house (very rude mind you)....without even telling me why they were there. It wasn't until almost 2 hours of them being in the house before they told me that someone had said that my Mother was closed in her room & kept from seeing people or talking on the phone. It was all a part of the ID theft plot she was doing to get me out of the house & alone with my Mother.

What I learned from this is that anyone can lie about abuse & can take anything or nothing & turn it into a case if they want to. I think your supervisor (or whatever she was) was just letting you know that stupid little things can be turned against you when they really weren't anything of the kind.

What this world is coming to is pathetic....it's just like parents who are disciplining their children in public & get charged with abuse. It has really gone too far & is completely rediculous.

In reality, you did NOTHING wrong.....so don't beat yourself up about it,
Debbie