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Originally Posted by unaluna
I think your t feels that the years you spent talking about your termination process, WERE your termination process. He would never leave you hanging. He would always be there for you. Where is your love for him? If you didnt come to love him sometime during those six years, you are not going to start to love him now. So in that way, you are more like a brand new client. You never attached to him. I dont say this to blame you or hurt you, but to try to explain what might be meant by "how it is". He never reached you. You never trusted him - not just this last episode, but over all the six years.
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I don't understand Unaluna, how you feel qualified to step in and make these judgements about how much I loved and love him, trusted him and have been betrayed. How much do you know about me? Very little. So why do you feel compelled to come out with statements such as this: 'You never trusted him - not just this last episode, but over all the six years."
Isn't this meant to be a forum for support and talking about our own experience, not leaping in and making judgements bases on little evidence, of the OP?