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Originally Posted by MariaLucy
I don't understand Unaluna, how you feel qualified to step in and make these judgements about how much I loved and love him, trusted him and have been betrayed. How much do you know about me? Very little. So why do you feel compelled to come out with statements such as this: 'You never trusted him - not just this last episode, but over all the six years."
Isn't this meant to be a forum for support and talking about our own experience, not leaping in and making judgements bases on little evidence, of the OP?
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Amen to that. Interesting how far people will go to defend the indefensible. Anything to avoid the unpleasant truth, which is that
any therapist can give
any client the boot at
any time.
The situation is straightforward. It's about a devastating betrayal of trust. There is no way to frame this ending as ethical, unless some sort of therapy doublethink is employed.
Clearly all the bullying is upsetting OP, but people can't resist taking another shot. Isn't therapy supposed to model empathy and self-awareness?
I for one understand what Maria is going thru. It's a particular sort of hell. What else is there to say.