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Originally Posted by MariaLucy
I don't understand Unaluna, how you feel qualified to step in and make these judgements about how much I loved and love him, trusted him and have been betrayed. How much do you know about me? Very little. So why do you feel compelled to come out with statements such as this: 'You never trusted him - not just this last episode, but over all the six years."
Isn't this meant to be a forum for support and talking about our own experience, not leaping in and making judgements bases on little evidence, of the OP?
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I only know what you tell us. I AM basing this on my own experience. You say your t is dumping crap on you by doing this. That does not sound to me like you trust him or that there was ever any love there. I understand "dumping crap". My family dumped crap on me, pretty literally. It took me many years of therapy to get past it, and im still working on it. I say you never trusted him, because i think YOU WOULD REMEMBER the exact moment you decided to trust him, as i did. Its like the first christmas for people like us. From crap, not to blind trust, but to not being a victim; being a survivor.
Eta - im sorry if i upset you. I will refrain from any further comments.