Really?!? Huh! Out of the 4 I have had (all female) I have one that still calls every other month or two to check in. Or sends an email. I haven't seen her in over a year. And I do always feel cared for - it's a nice, rare, feeling.

Reading about so many ppl with male T's , I just don't think i could engage that way. I'd fall head over heels and be a wreck.
Kiya