Oh, wow! It's not like you snooped except for looking up the Bar Mitzvah boy's family. I know most people may tell you to not say anything to your T, but I think you're like me, which means you're going to tell her. My T knows I want to know about her life, and I got a text like that, I would tell her, and then ask if she's going to the Bar Mitzvah. I probably wouldn't ask her to get an autograph but would ask if it's really that famous person, and if she's related.

It is probably crossing boundaries to ask who "sweetheart" is.

She may be embarrassed about having you read her text. I think it IS personal, but since it happened, it's kind of hard to pretend it didn't.

How do you think your T will react if you tell her about that text?