I agree that if you are curious I think it would be OK to ask bit be prepared for her not to answer your questions. I would be curious and I would struggle to hide it too.

This made me think. If people in real life don't want to andwr our questions, I think they often won't just say that but will maybe lie to us if they don't want us to know the truth. I don't think a good T would lie but maybe they would be honest and say upfront that they would rather not answer. Interesting