You have helped me and others so much. I look up to you because you really are more of a fighter than you realize. Otherwise, you wouldn't be such a wonderful person despite having to deal with so many serious events.
Please don't kick yourself about the job thing. It's a tough economy; so many young people are unemployed. The obstacles you have dealt with will make it so you will just be a "late bloomer."
It's OK if you have to take it one day at a time. As you have said, you are still suffering the aftereffects of past events. Please don't beat yourself up if you need time to deal with these aftereffects before you take your next steps. As always, I encourage you to continue to seek help at your own pace and in your own terms.
Please always feel free to message me anytime. When you share some of your pain it is an honor for me. And it could be much, much better; I hope those days are coming for you!