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Originally Posted by stopdog
I think some of it sounds as though people are looking for ways to blame OP for what happened. I think that looking for ways to blame/shame her to explain his bad handling of the situation is simply off base.
I do think that the therapist handled this very badly. I don't know that there is going to be a resolution that satifies OP, but I don't think she is to blame for her reaction to the situation.
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I would disagree. I do think some of us are simply providing various ways to look at the situation. Sometimes it is hard to see a bad situation from various angles and perhaps seeing the various angles can help some people deal with what is going on. I don't see anyone here saying the therapist handled this correctly. It isn't about blame; it is about seeing the situation from various possible angles.