How do you get over someone that has spent a large majority of their life with you? How do you just look at that person and say I am really sorry that I could not be the husband you wanted me to be? My wife has separated from me due to anger that I was dealing with. Since I have been gone I have spent every waking moment trying to fix myself. I know that I have changed, but she needs to know that I have changed. I just wish that my T could just wave a magic wand and say poof everything is fixed. Sorry if I am just going on and on. This woman has been in my life for over 18 years and means the world to me.