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Originally Posted by Rainstoppedplay
I was always like this, tied myself in knots trying to please. Got used and bullied.
Its all about esteem, build your self esteem up to normal levels. You are important, special and unique. When you truely believe this, the need to please excessively disappears. And ironically more people like you. Value yourself and others will get those vibes & value you too.
Walk tall. Look the world in the eye.
You are enough. You are always enough.
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The irony I have always found was 'why I never found someone like me, who could relate to my way of now thinking, which is if a person is there why would you take advantage? essentially people can have fantastic friendships but why did I not meet someone who has equal morals? Why am I the one who was wanting to form friendships but still the singleton in feeling empathetic, sympathetic, compassionate, love to them?! I could meet someone now who shares my lack of understanding for why would you take advantage of someone because of low self-esteem etc. but how do you break the habit of being wary of someone. Thank-you for your post it does help.