I think that yes, there are cases when people get married fast and it works out. There are also cases where people wiat and it doesn't work out. on top of that there are sometimes things that no matter how fast or slow you go, there is no way to know what is coming, like in your case.

but can you make a case against not waiting really in a more general sense? I still contend that in most cases taking more time to let things happen and to find things out about the other person it has a much higher chance of you marrying the right person whereas going too quickly risks missing many things that would take awhile to weed out.

In all of my responses, of course I am basing this on very little information and on experience and what I know. There will always be cases where there is an exception. I do think that my response was logical and a sound one but I understand that you may see it differently.