oh yeah,,,,he did take over all of our finances, i no longer have a checkbook or debit card and all of my credit cards are maxed so i cant do any more damage then i have already done. i am allowed so much money per week for me and that is it!!! some people say that is hell and it is like being in prison,,,,,,i say thank god,,,i no longer have to deal/worry about money or messing up the finances,,,,,heaven to me, thank god.