Hmm. Me? In the past a lot of things. Too much alcohol, drugs, legal and not so legal, toxic relationships, quitting good jobs, moving to and fro across the country and back, spirituality, meditation, went back to graduate school and earned rather useless degree, got rid of toxic relationships. In the past two years I quit smoking cigarettes, quit drinking for a year, extreme dieted, started training for a half-marathon, get rid of an extremely toxic psycho in my life, moved to a new apartment I hate, quit a good job, and now I feel unbearably anxious and depressed.

I absolutely must do something radical to shake myself and my life up but it cannot be negative or toxic. I kind of stopped training for the half-marathon and need to get back with that. I also need a new job, and I have no friends and am socially isolated.

I don't know. I hate when I get this way because I am afraid I am going to end up in the Emergency Room and I can't afford it.

I have always gotten unstuck by doing wild and not very wise things. I am not used to getting unstuck wisely.

PS I have been discussing my situation with friends and family but at this point they have nothing left to offer. Most people are too wrapped up in their own lives to offer advice. I am not getting that kind of support.