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Originally Posted by Claritytoo
Last session my t was giving examples of why it is a good reason to work on my parts. She said that it wouldn't be good for me to act like I am 10 years old when I am almost 60, How am I supposed to sound at 60. I am serious. I am not sure what that means. Is it the vernacular I use or the subjects that I talk about or is it my presentation. I don't sound like I am 10 when I hear myself talk. But what does a 60 year old sound like.
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for each person this is different... what I did as a 10 yr old is different than what you did at 10 years old. how I sounded as a 10 yr old is going to be different than how you sounded as a 10 year old...
let me give you an example... Im in the 30's age bracket.. people my age dont go around hula hooping, jump roping while singing a rhyme, saying "psyche" and calling friends "Goober"people who are my age talk about work, their children, the Halloween party last night, when can we get our children (biological not alters) together for a playdate and other adult discussions. the tone of my voice is a lower adults voice vs the higher octave of a child sounding voice.
my suggestion is talk with your treatment provider. they will explain to you what they meant about how your child alters are different than your adult self and how working on things will help you to become your age rather than behaving like a child.