Haha, yeah I'm in my early twenties. My attitude towards my physical appearance is pretty good because I had to learn to be. Kids at school couldn't make fun of me if I was already a step ahead of them
Get creative with them hats. Allowing yourself to be humorous with your style could help with your anxiety; at least it did with me.
Haha, I'm learning Gaelic, German, Spanish and Italian. So far, I've gotten nowhere.