Hmmm, I have to think about that. I'm not so sure. I don't have a SO or children of my own (don't know how that happened, well I know how it didn't happen but thought it would until it was too late). Not sure if I could have when my parents were alive, but sure have wished for it, & since they have been gone, came very close a year or so ago. So... not really sure about that. But thank you, I think you just can't know until you get there. Whatever that means.