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Originally Posted by amandalouise
for each person this is different... what I did as a 10 yr old is different than what you did at 10 years old. how I sounded as a 10 yr old is going to be different than how you sounded as a 10 year old...
let me give you an example... Im in the 30's age bracket.. people my age dont go around hula hooping, jump roping while singing a rhyme, saying "psyche" and calling friends "Goober"people who are my age talk about work, their children, the Halloween party last night, when can we get our children (biological not alters) together for a playdate and other adult discussions. the tone of my voice is a lower adults voice vs the higher octave of a child sounding voice.
my suggestion is talk with your treatment provider. they will explain to you what they meant about how your child alters are different than your adult self and how working on things will help you to become your age rather than behaving like a child.
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I don't think I behave so much like a child. When not in session my voice is appropriate for my age. I think it's mostly my vocabulary. The other night I was talking to a younger co worker I used the phrase " it's all good". She smiled in a way that made me think what I said wasn't consistent with my age. But I still can't think of a more concise way to express my view at that time. Am I too old to say "it's all good" at age 60