the first relationship was probably about three years...I did not wait a whole long time to get back into another relationship probably less then a month.

I know that dosn't sound good but me and my fiancé had known each other as friends for a really long time and we both knew we wanted to date and really liked each other. So we just went for it for the most part....

but I also am polyamorus and have several other relationships going on with other people also....and none of my other partners seemed to think me doing this was a bad thing. They were just happy i was getting out of a bad situation and finding some that treated me so much better.