I had a set day and time with the three Ts over the past six years, but last week was my first set time with current T. For a full year we figured it out week by week. Sometimes I wondered about when we skipped a week here and there, like I wasn't important or liked enough to earn a spot. For the most part, though, I was fine with the flexible schedule, so it actually weirded me out when she finally offered a set time. I thought, "Is the latest stuff I've shared that messed up? Did she need a year to see if she wanted to or could help me? Should I be flattered or frightened?"
Probably silly, but I plan to ask all of that on Monday.