Hi Rainbow. You've mentioned being upset seeing family movies that didn't include you (because you hadn't yet been born), so it does seem to be an unresolved issue when you don't see yourself in the lives of people who matter to you. Maybe your therapist's omission makes you feel like you're not important to her, when it could just as easily be that she did not want to distract from your life. I don't see it as something to resolve with her as an issue between you, so much as something to get right with yourself (in the context of therapy) so that you can come from your own center and not someone else's. Not sure if that makes sense.