i dont think were THAT bad. we disagree on a lot of things but that makes for interesting conversation and long talks about issues etc...

we enjoy doing the same things for the most part. usually this is how a fight starts:

i think he is an a bad mood (or vise versa) then no matter how many times the other one says "im not in a bad mood" the first person just doesnt believe it. then it turns into well why dont you believe me and then all of a sudden stuff from 2 years ago comes up. i really dont know how we do it.

but last night we learned how easy it is to just take a deep breath and let it go. cause we were laying in bed upset about whatever and i just took a deep breath and told myself i didnt want to be mad about stupid stuff. he did the same and we were fine.

he has compromised. he went with me on monday to clean the cat cages for the humane society and said he wants to go with me to volunteer this coming sunday.

and i have compromised with him and sports. i mean, i like sports and all but he LOVES sports. so after a while it gets annoying. but instead of fighting or thinking that sports are more important i just find something else to do.

right now it sucks because were broke and have no money to go out to dinner or bowling or whatever and thats when we really connect y'know? but he has a 2nd job and is saving up money so that when we do see each other we dont just sit around the house with nothing to do.