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Originally Posted by ruh roh
Hi Rainbow. You've mentioned being upset seeing family movies that didn't include you (because you hadn't yet been born), so it does seem to be an unresolved issue when you don't see yourself in the lives of people who matter to you. Maybe your therapist's omission makes you feel like you're not important to her, when it could just as easily be that she did not want to distract from your life. I don't see it as something to resolve with her as an issue between you, so much as something to get right with yourself (in the context of therapy) so that you can come from your own center and not someone else's. Not sure if that makes sense.
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Wow! I'm always surprised when someone remembers something I posted in the past, like about my family movies. I'm not invisible here, which could be why I like the forums so much. Thank you, ruh roh. I DO get what you're saying and I agree it's not about T. She's always trying to get me to have more Self, and to appreciate my "Rainbowness." I think that's what you're saying. It fits that you say I get upset when I don't see myself in the lives of people who mean so much to me. That really strikes a chord! Like, did they forget me? Why?