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Originally Posted by BudFox
People think pushing this kind of thing is pointless because they assume the therapist has to do something, like apologize. I can say from experience that just telling a therapist what their "treatment" did to me can be empowering. Sometimes it's helpful to stand up to an abuser. Speak truth to power, as they say.
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I feel empowered just from standing up to him. Not being 'oh you told me not to contact you anymore or ask any third party to contact you and I am obeying you - you great and mighty therapist you.'.
I am saying that the perpetrator does not get to call the shots. he does not get to say who I can complain to, when I can complain to them and what I might need to send to him if I am making a complaint. He is in the wrong here. He has aborted therapy whilst working what appears to be full time and he did it in a brutal and cowardly way and he is very much hoping I will slink away and not cause him trouble. I shall simply report him to his professional bodies. That is very empowering and he wounded me and dis empowered me and I am feeling much better for fighting back. The official complaint to the NHS and to the governing bodies, is already written and ready to go. If they don't reply soon, we just start the complaints procedure.