i came out as bi to my mom in 7th grade and the first thing she said to me was gross. pretty traumatic. then in 9th grade i realized i was trans, my mom says that she's accepting of lgbt+ people but she doesn't want me hanging out with trans people because they might be a bad influence on me, and she wasn't accepting of any of my relationships (all of which have been with trans guys) and im afraid to come out to her because I'm pretty sure she will kick me out of the house and i need her to pay for my college.