The problem is that he wants to fulfill what we previously discussed, he wants to be comfortable in a non-monogamous relationship. And I can tell he does try, but inevitably his emotions get the better of him and that isn't something either of us can really deal with. Its less a matter of him refusing to accommodate my needs, and more that he really is unable to accommodate my needs with his current mental state.

If I stay and live a lie, I will be miserable. If I leave and have to live without him, I will also be miserable. Its a lose lose situation. I feel like I'm trapped.