We are now just past a month from my OP about this.

Her health and emotions are worse than ever. Although she said she was dying last month. She didn't die.

Now she's pulled cr*p with me again. I was doing what's best for her and for me. But now I have to undo what I did, and remove myself from all involvement once again.

I have been so deeply hurt by my own mother so many times!

I discussed it with my sisters and aunt, they all agree to let her be responsible for her own fate and remove myself.

They all appreciated that I had her best interest at heart and she should have just trusted me. They all agree that she is a mentally/emotionally unstable person.

It's hard to watch someone drown because they are manipulatively planning to prey on the kindness of others. Sadly, she is mistaken. I am not that kind because she doesn't deserve it.

You can't abuse and manipulate me forever and think I am going to go way beyond the support I feel I owe.