Husband took the opportunity to show me some compassion and called my parents and told them I deserved an apology.

I was so enraged and went off about years of abuse and I'm done with it.

Of course I won't get that apology.

I feel good that h stepped up though. Maybe he is really listening and can make me feel more loved. He's seen what I've been put through by my mother. Maybe he is really seeing and paying attention to it now. I do appreciate his effort.