Lol when he poked me it wasnt aggressive at all. Kinda like if you poke someone in the side or tummy. It just irritated me at that moment. And no theres no subservience. As i said most of the time my thoughts end up making the decision lol. According to him today, he believed i had the other credit card and would be fine. Apparently i either didnt tell him it wont swipe anymore (damaged strip) or i did and he didnt hear me. Honestly i dont recall saying anything about it, i just called for another card. He did admit to and apologize for his side of stuff last night, but hes definitely still irritated. And im still slightly snippy. I think the suggestion to work on me is probably the best thing i can do right now.