My youngest and his family came over this morning. He and his dad went out alone to run some errands and my DIL and the kids stayed with me. She and I had our first heart to heart in 7 years. I'm in shock and dismay! She told me some things that have been going on between her and my son. The only thing different are the players!! She has the exact same complaints that I have about MY husband. Lord God! Like father, like son!

Although she handles things quit immaturely, I can certainly relate to her! Before she left, I suggested, like I did to my son, that they try to set their feelings aside and TOGETHER, try to resolve the problems they're having right now. Too bad she couldn't give ME any advice! Obviously, what she's been doing isn't working. Not that what I've been doing works, either! LOL She can't motivate her husband any better than I can mine! While she gives her husband the silent treatment and I try reasoning with mine, neither plan works!

Anybody got any suggestions? I'm not even sure what it is I'm asking for...